The Path to Abandoning Sins: Seeking Guidance and Perseverance
Hazrat Qari Ismail Desai Saheb
Hijri date
Ramadaan 1441
Duration
34:13
Summary
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) taught Abu Huraira (RA) about the benefits of five actions, the first being to abstain from Haram (forbidden acts) to become the greatest worshipper.
Abstaining from Haram is particularly significant, especially during the current blessed month.
The core essence of acts like fasting (Roza) is abstention from forbidden things.
True abstention extends to all things displeasing to Allah.
Many find it difficult to gather the courage to abandon sins.
There is no easy way to abandon Haram except through striving (Mujahada) and sacrifice.
The level of sacrifice needed depends on the type of sin and how long one has indulged in it; older, deeply ingrained sins are harder to leave.
Even if difficult, one must make a sincere effort to abandon sins.
Seeking advice from pious scholars (Ahlullah, Mashaikh) makes the process of leaving sins significantly easier.
Anonymity is possible when seeking advice, as many scholars accommodate messages without requiring personal identification, easing embarrassment.
These scholars provide practical prescriptions without judgment, often inspired directly by Allah due to their strong connection with Him and their compassion for humanity.
A practical example: a Masjid attendant struggling with the hot roof was advised to use specific sandals only for that purpose, simplifying a seemingly complex problem.
When attempting to quit sins independently, one might choose an unnecessarily difficult path due to lack of experience.
Seeking guidance from experienced individuals, especially spiritual guides, is like asking a seasoned traveler for the easiest route.
The strength and courage (himmat) to abandon sins are gained through communication with Ahlullah, their prayers (duas), and their practical advice.
The intention to give up sins should be permanent, not just for a limited period like Ramadan, as sins are always displeasing to Allah.
It is crucial to have the intention to remove weaknesses from one's life completely and not return to them after the blessed month.