The Importance of Good Character and Serving Parents
Hazrat Qari Ismail Desai Saheb
Duration
21:26
Summary
Challenges and problems are realities we will face; we need to be prepared with proper tools (lessons learned and implemented).
It's important to listen to teachings with the intention to practice and implement them.
Our inner thoughts and intentions (mind and heart) are reflected in our outward actions and speech.
Filthy thoughts lead to filthy actions; clean thoughts lead to good actions.
True respect and etiquette (adab) should be extended to our parents, who are higher in rank than teachers in many aspects.
We often serve teachers/scholars with great zeal (e.g., opening doors, setting shoes), even if they don't need it.
However, we often neglect similar acts of service and respect for our own parents, who are most deserving.
Offering to carry things for parents, opening doors for them, ensuring their comfort, and generally prioritizing their needs are small but significant acts of service.
Doing these acts of service for parents, especially without seeking praise or recognition, earns immense blessings and pleasure (from parents and Allah).
Educated individuals should behave with proper etiquette and character, reflecting what they have learned, especially in a place of learning (madrasa).
It is disappointing when students, despite being taught, exhibit poor behavior.