Controlling the Nafs (Ego) and Prioritizing Allah's Pleasure
Hazrat Abdullah Ali
Hijri date
Ramadaan 1441
Duration
28:53
Summary
The nafs (ego/self) is an internal enemy, more dangerous than Shaytan.
Unlike Shaytan, which is chained in Ramadan, the nafs continues to incite to sin due to constant indulgence over the year.
Even permissible desires should be managed; true devotion means questioning what the nafs has done to deserve a specific pleasure.
For most, permissible pleasures can be enjoyed within Sharia limits, especially for family, to prevent the nafs from seeking haram.
Avoid mixed social gatherings (men and women together) even during special occasions like Iftar or Eid, as this displeases Allah and leads to discord.
Such seemingly social gatherings can cause severe harm, including broken marriages, by violating Allah's commands.
Prioritize pleasing Allah over pleasing people, even if it means facing criticism or ostracization.
Setting good, Sharia-compliant trends (e.g., proper segregation) in homes will bring continuous reward for future generations.
True family unity and happiness come from obeying Allah and His Messenger, not from breaking His commands.
The greatest tragedy is to displease Allah while attempting to please others.
Focus solely on pleasing Allah, and other matters will align correctly.
Gaining Allah's love is achieved by adhering to the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH).
Introducing righteous practices into homes and families will replace spiritual darkness, disunity, fights, and arguments with love, compassion, and consideration.